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Soldier's Home

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Essay 4 Veteran`s Difficulties in Relating to the Family “Soldier’s Home” by Ernest Hemingway is a story in which an American war veteran, Harold Krebs, returns from World War I to his home in Oklahoma. He comes home later than the other soldiers do, and he misses the welcome greetings of his home town people. He tries to tell his war story to people, but he finds out no one is interested in listening to him. Krebs decides to lie about his war stories and his experiences to make his family and his hometown people interested in listening to him. He finds out when he is with other soldiers he can enjoy talking …show more content…

He also finds that talking to his hometown girls is not easy for him, and he even decides that he does not need any girl in his life. Meanwhile, his mother shows serious concern about his social life and his job. Krebs tries to be honest with his mother when she asks if he loves her or not, but his mother cries after hearing ``No`` and makes him lie again. Krebs refuses to pray with his mother when she asks him and he shows that he is not able to believe in God again. At the end of the story, Krebs decides to move to the Kansas City to find a job and lives alone there. The thesis statement is That Harold Krebs has difficulty adjusting with his family members and decides to withdraw from them and that is a common problem among veterans. Harold Krebs has difficulty with his familial relationships after returning from war, as most of the Veterans also experience this problem. The factors that contribute to this difficulty are the soldier`s injured emotional status, family and society changes, and the improper reactions of the soldier’s family. Krebs comes home from a long overseas war with exhausted emotions and feels that living with a family is so complicated that he decides, `` He wanted …show more content…

Soldiers that engage in violence and observe too much harshness, apparently hurt mentally and emotionally that cause them to seek isolation from other people. Therefore, Krebs disturbed mental health affects his connection and communication with his family when his mother reaches out to him and asks `` `Don’t you love your mother dear boy? ` `No` Krebs said. `I don’t love anybody` `` (Hemingway 256). The negative impact of his posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD) leads him to feel so depressed that he cannot love anybody, even his mother. In fact, during World War I, most of the soldiers experience the same emotional distress that Psychologists call that ``Shell shock" (Ritchie 11). Experts believe that the main reason of Veterans emotional numbness is the constant exposure to the war trauma and the panics of fighting. They suffer severe emotional injuries that have common symptoms including, ``tremors, twitching, depression, nightmares, sweating, irritation—and eventually making a man incapable of continuing." (Dsndeker 315). Therefore, soldier’s damaged mental health makes them unable to cope appropriately with a normal family relationship and the

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