My identity as a reciprocating self has been profoundly influenced by a variety of characteristics, be they my experiences, my family background, or how I experienced covenant love, intimacy, empowerment, and grace. All of these factors have formed me into someone who is uniquely and divinely created, regardless of my feelings about myself. While I struggle at times to find myself worthy, I am able to begin the process of believing this truth due to the background of gracing that my parents have given me. Occasionally, I struggle to understand why my family and I have had to walk through pain and loss; however, I am beginning to comprehend that we experienced this so that we could become more fully reciprocating selves who place a high value on life. Even though I am a reciprocating self, there are still struggles that I face. For most of my life, I have been opposed to vulnerability. When I was five, my grandparents had a red and yellow little tikes car. For some reason, I decided that it would be a good idea to stand on the roof of the car and jump off of it, even though I was afraid of heights. After doing this a few times, I landed on my foot incorrectly and twisted my ankle. However, I was afraid of being vulnerable and admitting that I was hurt, mainly because I was afraid of getting in trouble. Somehow, I managed to convince my parents that I was completely fine and that I had no injuries. While this is the first time I can remember my aversion to being open and
The concept of Identity is complex through the exploration of relationships and a sense of belonging. This is explored within Tim Winton’s short stories, ‘ Neighbours’ and ‘Big World’, and in Robert Walker’s poem ‘Okay, Let’s be Honest’. Identity can change and evolve depending on belief, change, language and shifting influences.
Most people, unless they choose to be an outsider, want to be considered “cool.” Whether it’s to fit in with a peer group, or clique, or to impress someone in particular, like a member of the opposite sex, or a potential mate. Or possibly to gain something from an individual for financial or social gain (see “Scamming”).
People think of me as a girl that stay to herself but I am a black african american and my cultural identity is dancing i love to dance dancing is my life i could dance all day and night my mom said i been dancing since i was just 3 years old i dance kinda good i don’t dance that good to be a dance star but i’m going keep trying and trying and one day i’m make it there, i like to dress in a hip-hop kind of way because it’s just the way i am i dress in a way to explain me or i dress in the way my mood is , I love to eat gumbo , gumbo is the food that bring my family together , like it could be a hot sunny day and my mom cook gumbo then my mom would call them tell and they would pull up 20 mins later we a family that like to eat gumbo my family is loud they louder then 1000 people in a mall they very loud
There are many things that shape our identities from society, and family to things we learn on our own like experiences. Many struggle to find their identity and struggle between two (or more) identities. Some are very secure with their identities whether it’s their own, a combination of society and theirs, or society’s alone. The question is which one plays a bigger role? I think when we’re young authority figures and society plays a bigger role in life, but as you grow older, and become a teenager (sometimes even adult) the roles switch and your own identiy is the biggest part in your life.
My cultural identity stems from my countless brave ancestors that made the journey to the United States many eons ago. Since then, every generation has impacted our original customs. As the years passed on, so did behaviors and other tendencies. These have eventually made their way throughout the entire family tree and down to my generation. Now, as a social work student, I am forced to face these behaviors head on and even challenge them.
A person’s identity is shaped by many different aspects. Family, culture, friends, personal interests and surrounding environments are all factors that tend to help shape a person’s identity. Some factors may have more of an influence than others and some may not have any influence at all. As a person grows up in a family, they are influenced by many aspects of their life. Family and culture may influence a person’s sense of responsibilities, ethics and morals, tastes in music, humor and sports, and many other aspects of life. Friends and surrounding environments may influence a person’s taste in clothing, music, speech, and social activities. Personal interests are what truly set individuals apart. An individual is not a puppet
To understand Locke’s concept of personal identity it is necessary to understand what he means by identity and what he means specifically by personal identity. Locke states there are three substances that we have ideas of and that have identities. He defines idea in Essay concerning Human Understanding as “whatsoever is the object of the understanding when a man thinks” (Essay, chapter 1, section 8). That is to say that an idea, to Locke, is the basic unit of human thought. Identity is based off of comparison of these ideas in different times and places.
The purpose of this report is to create a greater knowledge and understanding of the different values and beliefs that shapes and individuals decision. This report is also going to investigate the impact that Peers, Media, family, culture and religion has on your identity. For this report, I will be analyzing one of two different scenarios that show the factors that influence the identities, relationships and the decisions that teenager has to make.
My identity and values have been shaped for the better by my best friend. She has shown me many things about life that have changed the way I think about the world and what I believe in. I have always believed in kindness, love, and seeing things from other people’s perspectives but she helped to bring out those qualities in me and bought out those values to their fullest.
Being an Asian American attending a highly lauded university I may be considered brainy, but at the university my intelligence is perceived based on my GPA and test scores. When I sat in my classroom I am surrounded by endless high caliber, intelligent Asian American students. I have never thought of myself as being highly intelligent or naturally gifted, but I do visualize my identity as someone who works hard to achieve my goals paired with a strong work ethic. It’s a challenge balancing school, work, and being able to take care of family as well. At the university my beliefs and work ethic aligns congruently, although at times I question whether I belong here. I was never a straight A student in high school, in fact when I was in high school
To be an American is to have traits of freedom the thing that the founding fathers counted on is to have the will to speak freely and to have the will of religion in the constitution it say that every citizen should have life liberty and the pursuit of happiness. This impacts and brings everyone from different places to help create a society that is free. The founding fathers also counted for the people to speak for what is right. The reason is because this helps out on what the people want instead of the government wants this goes to show that the people matter and that is what makes a person happy and also makes a person feel like they have the pursuit to be happy.
Have you ever thought about your identity, what represents you? What defines you as a person? There are many factors on what shapes identity, such as appearance, ethnicity, sexual orientation, etc., but there are two factors that speak to me most when it comes to understanding identity, gender and race. After reading articles talking over the importance of identity and seeing the powerful impact it brings to this world, it immediately made me think of what defines myself, and I quickly thought of the relationship between gender and race. Identity correlates our lives every single day, your name gives you so much meaning as a person. I believe
There are numerous factors that either make up or restrain the self-identity of a person or an individual. Culture, in addition to family traditions, is one of the factors that affect the self-identity of an individual. When growing up, the environment around affect the personality, values, as well as, beliefs of an individual. The environment includes friends, family members, and the people that affect the life of an individual. So, if the environment is negative, then an individual will have low self esteem.
Over the course of my life I have had many life experiences which have made me who I am today. When I was in my middle childhood, most of my life revolved around playing and having fun. I did not have to put forth effort in hardly any area of my life or work hard in order to achieve specific goals. As time went on however, my own life experiences began to have an effect on me, and shape the person I am today. My life started to change the most during middle childhood when I was around the age of seven years old. At this point in my life, I had to adjust to several big changes.
“Molly, dinner time!” my mother yells in a sing-songy voice from the first floor. My father calls the waitress over, “Excuse me, Molly” he states, trying to get her attention. The doorbell rings, and I answer it, “Hi, I’m Molly” says the cheerful little girl scout standing at my doorstep. Names are universal identifers; they shed no light about one’s personality. They are labels, they fail to display our identity because identity is a unique part of what makes you, you.