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The Virtuous Cycle In The Empathy Diaries By Sherry Turkle

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The virtuous cycle, according to Sherry Turkle in her essay “The Empathy diaries” consists of three main components, first solitude, second conversation and finally self-reflection. These components can be seen clearly in Yiyun Li’s essay “Dear Friend, From My Life I Write to You in Your life.”, where Li shares with us her experience with identifying her own self which is linked to solitude, opening up to others which is the conversation and finally her disagreement with people’s view of herself which is self-reflection. Showing us how she works through the virtuous cycle with the added component of time; the before and after concept in Li’s essay can be compared to the beginning and the ending of the virtuous cycle. However, human interactions and emotion cannot fit perfectly into a “cycle”, solitude will not always lead to confidence in oneself and conversation will not always provide rich material for self-reflection to provide for a more productive solitude. The virtuous cycle can break at any one of its phases.
The main concept in Li’s essay is her relationship with time and how it relates to different personalities. In the beginning of her essay, Li describes to us her fascination with the “before” and “after” concept saying “The certainty in that pronouncement-for each unfortunate of inconvenient situation, there is a solution to make it no longer be-both attracts and perplexes me”(Li 109). Finding a solution to every problem fascinates Li. Incorporating this

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