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The Myth Of Adolescence

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Introduction: "The Myth of Adolescence: Raising Responsible Children in an Irresponsible Society" was written by Dr. David Alan Black and published in 1999 by Davidson Press. Without a doubt, Dr. Black is entirely qualified to write on both parenting (he has two sons) and the Bible (he can read the New Testament in the original Greek). In addition, his education is extensive - the man has a bachelor's degree from Biola University, a Master's degree from Talbot School of Theology (with a major in New Testament and Greek), a Doctorate from the University of Basel, and some post-doctoral work at a college in Israel. Unsurprisingly, Dr. Black is a professor at Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary where he teaches (you guessed it...) New Testament …show more content…

Black has some timely concepts which are supported by Scriptural and cultural evidence. His thesis and purpose are incredibly clear and using Jesus as a model is always a good starting point. However, Dr. Black makes many assumptions about Jesus' early life based on how Jewish culture operates. This is particularly apparent in the middle section (chapters 4,5, and 6) which Black calls "the heart of the book." When talking about Jesus' home life, Dr. Black says that Joseph and Mary "were meticulous about how they raised their son" and that "they weren't anxious to get their gifted young son before the public." How does he know this? Why does he make it sound so set in stone? In another example from chapter six, Black says that, "He [Jesus] and his brothers undoubtably worked with their father in various building projects." Undoubtably? Though this might be a fair assumption, Black makes it sound like he is absolutely certain this is the case. Perhaps, Black stated his assumptions in this way to lend further credence to his points, but it comes off as a bit misleading. Why not say "probably" or "most likely?" In truth, Black almost makes it sound as though he were present through Jesus' …show more content…

Naturally, I read her the "sample letter of invitation to a coming of age ceremony" and the "sample program for coming of age ceremony" Dr. Black kindly provided in the back of the book. If only I could describe her face accurately when I asked her if my family should host one of the "rites of passage celebrations for her twelfth birthday." She almost died! Honestly, I think Dr. Black goes a bit far out with his "rite of passage" ideas. All I know for sure is that if my parents had planned such an event, I would have been mortified (to say the least) and my sister seems to feel about the same. This is not say that children should not be sat down with family and explained the standards by which parents will expect them to behave now that they are considered adults (perhaps over their favorite meal or at their preferred restaurant). Overall, this book provides some fantastic parenting tips in regards to making young people accountable and to deepen their walks with the Lord. I would just advise parents not to embarrass their children into

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