Have you ever taken into consideration how your intrapersonal communication has an impact on your interpersonal communication? Our interpersonal communication is communication that strives us to create and maintain relationships with others in our life. My interpersonal communication is solely based on my self-concept, self-image, how I perceive myself, my bad and good qualities, and my non-verbal communication.
My expectations about myself or my self-concept influences how I communicate with others around me. It is stated that “the term self-concept is a general term used to refer to how someone thinks about, evaluates or perceives themselves” (Mcleod, 2008). I tend to be someone that is very hard on myself, and often dissatisfied if I
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This is something that I have been working on for a long time, as it is something that takes time and is difficult to overcome. Lately, I have realized how much self-image has taken over my life and the tolls that it has been taking on my life and my relationships with others. The way that I see myself is how I think that others see me. I see myself as shy, annoying, in the way of others, and usually a disappointment. Having low self-image constantly causes me to question whether I am good enough for the people I associate with every day, my job, my school, and often times I set unrealistic goals for myself that are unable to be achieved. Therefore, often times I overlook all of the compliments that I receive and only focus on the criticisms that I get, because to me the criticisms overpower the compliments.
I often perceive myself through the eyes of other people. Nowadays, many people meet others through social media such as Facebook or Instagram and talk via texting. For me, I am someone that can easily communicate through texting as I do not have to worry about what others are thinking about me. Since I tend to overthink every little thing, meeting new people is something that I have a hard time doing. I feel that people will not like me in person as I tend to be very shy when first meeting people. I view myself how I think others will see me, and I fear that they will think that I am annoying or clingy, however I just want to be accepted. This is
A day in the life of a veterinary technician may include answering clients’ questions, providing written or verbal instructions regarding care of an animal, answering the telephone,
Self esteem is the component of a person's personality that dictates how they view themselves. People with healthy self-esteem
* Body Paragraph #3 - Differentiate appropriate levels of self-disclosure and emotional intelligence in various relationships.
How do you view yourself? How do you think others view you? These questions are central to the idea of self- concept how you perceive yourself and how you believe others perceive you impacts your thoughts and ideas your actions and reactions. Your-self concept developed over years through your social interactions with your fellow man. It is what you believe to be your strength and weaknesses. Years of self- evaluation and comparisons to your peers helped to paint the internal picture you feel describe your best.
I struggle daily with my insecurities, and I know many of you do too because it's on your social media pages all the time. What happens when we stop complaining about the things we don't like about ourselves, stop focusing on what everyone else around us says, and stop wishing we could be someone
To function effectively in today's society people must communicate with one another. Yet for some individuals communication experiences are so unrewarding that they either consciously or unconsciously avoid situations where communication is required. (McCroskey & Richmond, 1979) The term communication apprehension' was coined by James McCroskey (1976a) and is defined as "an individual's level of fear or anxiety associated with either real or anticipated communication with another person or persons" (McCroskey, 1984). In the last two decades communication apprehension and related constructs, such as reticence and unwillingness to communicate, have received extensive research and theoretical attention by scholars in communication and
Self-concept is one of those things that I believe changes as you grow up and go through more and more in your daily life. I would like to say that I am a hardworking, kind and caring human, although I don’t think that is the person I used to put out in the world. Going through this life I have become hard and closed off to the outside world, not necessarily because I want to but instead because of the people and events that have shaped who I am. I am always striving to get past this part of my life and know that I will one day look back at all of the things that went wrong in my life and laugh because everything ended up being just right.
Our ability to communicate well with others is important to personal and professional success. The interpersonal communications course is planned to help us in being familiar with the system of effective, and to assess our own interpersonal ability to sharpen our critical understanding of the communication, also to improve the interpersonal skills. Mainly assess our interpersonal skills and to put in goals for improving our communications ability. To development of self-concept and identity are examined as basics for understanding personal communication. We explore our own communication behaviors and to identify areas of personal strengths and
One's self-concept affects one's perception, attitude and behavior, which can be demonstrated during the process of interpersonal communication. Aspects of one's life influence their self-concept, which not only affect how people perceive them but how they perceive themselves. Such things are gender, motivational level and psychological type. It is
Have you ever thought about why we feel about ourselves the way we do? Do you hate yourself or are you confident about who you are? Either way you feel about yourself, this all comes from your self-concept. According to Steven McCornack’s Reflect and Relate “self-concept is your overall perception of who you are.” My self-concept is constantly changing due to confidence boosts or if I become depressed and sad; these factors also influence my self-esteem. My self-concept helps determine how well I am able to communicate with others. “Some psychologists and sociologist have advanced theories that suggest we learn who we are through four basic meaning: our communication with other individuals, our association with groups, roles we assume, and our self-labels” (Beebe 35).
With so many social media platforms and messaging applications all vying for people’s attention, managing which media to use and what information to disclose becomes increasingly complex and multifaceted. Since social media choices are rarely constrained by considerations of access and costs, theories of interpersonal communication have shifted from questions of access to questions of choice, i.e. how and why are individuals making use of the different multi-media channels that are available to them, which echoes past research on media choice in traditional communication settings before the advent of social media (Perse & Dunn 1998).
We live in a society that is based on Individualism, rely on being independent and having the ability to make our own decisions. When I moved away from home to attend college, I became independent and had the ability to make my own decisions. When moving to college a big decision I had to make was where I was going to live and who I was going to live with. This year, I choose to live with two other friends in a big red house. At first it started off great, but the more time went by, conflict started to occur between my roommate and myself. Now with everything that has happened I am deciding if I want to still have a friendship with my roommate. Living in an individualistic society, I have the right to decide who I am friends with and who I don’t want to have a friendship with. Everyone at some point in their life has faced losing a friendship because of conflict and their own decisions. I will be trying to analyze this example from an interpersonal communication standpoint, by using the Social Exchange theory to help understand this social phenomenon.
Now I know that when I am having negative self-communication, I can either use my thoughts to portray them in which the way that I am feeling in that moment or keep my personal image by putting bad thoughts aside and acting like my casual self. For instance, when I was playing in a golf tournament a couple of months ago, I missed a 6-foot putt to win a tournament. In my head, I wasn’t very pleased with what the outcome came to be, I was a little furious, but not enough to snap my putter in half. I began to think to myself, “What
Egos have become a huge problem and the problem continues to get worse in the world today, especially in this generation. Everyone has an ego, it is an identity of our own construction, says Gary van Warmerdam (“What is the Ego”). When you hear or think things about your personality, talents, abilities, and looks and take what you hear or think and believe it, that’s what gives you your ego. In this generation we tend to listen and believe a lot in what other people have to say about us. You should only think positive things about yourself and keep trying until that day comes. A healthy self-esteem is both positive and realistic (“Secrets of Happiness”). People are too worried about others lives and not worried enough of their own. They think it’s ok to find flaws in others lives and other people themselves and make sure they know about it. When they let those people know their flaws or what they don’t like
1. Self-esteem is your assessment of your worth, value, skills, abilities, talents and appearance. Communication can enhance your self-esteem because when you know how to communicate effectively, you are able to express yourself in a clear and precise manner, which in turn, would boost your self-esteem. When you can convey positive thoughts or gestures, or have them conveyed to you, it’s no doubt a good feeling. When I feel that I’m communicating clearly and effectively, my confidence and self-perception is always increased. However, I feel insecure when I can’t find the right words to say to express my thoughts and feelings. Self-awareness is a very critical skill for improving self-esteem because you need to know your true self, to