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Stereotypes Of Optimism

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Optimism. What is it really? Many people misjudge what it really means to be optimistic. As someone who likes to think of themselves as an optimistic person, I understand how you could be stereotyped. Someone who is optimistic doesn’t necessarily fall under the guidelines, stereotyped by society. The first thing that comes to most people’s minds when they think of someone being optimistic might be, unrealistic, cheesy, or “sounds like a guidance counselor”. But being optimistic doesn’t mean you are unrealistic, simply hopeful. I’m not talking Snow and Charming from Once Upon a Time, it is not humanly possible to be that hopeful. Hopefulness comes with the territory when one is optimistic. If you are thinking right now that hope …show more content…

People hear an optimistic person and think “oh I’ve heard that a thousand times” or “Oh that’s so cringy and cheesy,” but really you could just be a close-minded person. In reality, everyone has thought this at least once. What most people don’t understand is that certain optimistic phrases and sayings are overused or cheesy for a reason. These phrases include “there’s no such thing can’t” “nothings impossible” or “the glass is half full.” This controversy actually has an easy fix, “glass half full or empty?,” I say just fill it up then it’ll be full! They would not be said as much if they weren’t true. Though this is the stereotype for optimistic people, many are not walking around saying things like “nothing’s impossible.” In my own personal experience, I have learned that optimism is not only a verbal trait. You can still be optimistic and not say a word. Yes, you don’t have to say a word to have a positive outlook. What a …show more content…

Are you ready? Optimistic people have doubts about things too. “OH. MY. GOD.” –Janice Litman (FRIENDS). I know such a shock. But in all seriousness, just because someone is optimistic about life does not mean they aren’t human, I mean “Nobody’s Perfect” (Hannah Montana). So, those of you who think you can’t classify yourselves as being optimistic because you have doubts, go ahead and change your Facebook/Instagram statuses now. Just because you are not techniquly optimistic all the time, doesn’t mean you can’t be optimistic. Some people use optimism for reassurance. Though they may not be optimistic on the inside, in able to seem confident, they use it. Most of the time those who are insecure don’t appear it because they use optimism to cover it up. Take a bully for example, they might appear tough on the outside, but they really are struggling deep within. Just as many optimistic people are at first. The thing with this is, happy thoughts lead to a happy

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