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Pop Culture: A Discussion About Rape Culture

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Rape happens and has become a culture because there is no set identity of what a rapist looks like in the same way we can identify a person by race, gender, and such. Although major efforts have been made to have an open discussion about rape culture, there is still a negative stigma for survivors and no real discussion on how to prevent rape. I will be exploring passive attitudes towards rape in media and how that attitude negatively affects other discussions of sexual assault, such as child molestation. For music to be popular, it needs to be catchy. Listeners don’t really pay attention to the lyrics until asked to do so. Because of this, there are many songs that suggest rape but aren’t negatively viewed unless the lyrics match a visual …show more content…

The men use “blame it on the alcohol” as their justification, even though the song narrates their entire thought process and their true intentions. In the film, Sixteen Candles, there’s a short conversation between Jake and Ted.
Jake: I can get a piece of ass anytime I want. Shit, I got Caroline in my bedroom right now, passed out cold. I could violate her ten different ways if I wanted to.
Ted: What are you waiting for? Ted suggests that raping Caroline is something that shouldn’t be question. It’s OK to rape her because she’s attractive and his girlfriend. There’s nothing wrong because she didn’t say “No”. Ted implies the heteronormative standards society has by implying a man should take advantage of any opportunity he has for sex. Jake doesn’t reply to the question, quickly changing the subject of the conversation. Ted’s comment is just brushed off and the conversation is viewed as “guy …show more content…

In the Glee episode Lights Out, Ryder admits to being molested by his babysitter when he was younger to the rest of the male members. However, their response was that Ryder shouldn’t feel ashamed or embarrassed because it’s every guy’s dream to be wanted by an older women. Sam tells Ryder, “Dude, you’re 11 and some hot 18-year-old plays with your junk? I’d have killed for that.” Ryder falls under peer pressure and laughs off the situation stating they were right and he’s lucky. It wasn’t until Kitty personally shares her story of being molested does Ryder have someone to confide with. When Kitty was molested, she tried telling her parents, but they brushed it off by saying he was a “good

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