Para Ser Feliz
The aphorism that I chose was one that my mother repeats to me everyday before I head off to school. As I walk out the door, she says, “Para ser feliz, hay que aprender a ignorar a las personas que te quieren hacer daño”, she hugs me and kisses me on the forehead. The translation of this aphorism in English is “To be happy, you have to learn to ignore people that are willing to hurt you”. My mother, Blanca Ramirez, says these words are from the bible, but put it in her own words. She never learned these words from anyone, she started to go by these exact words when she came to the United States. She knew that her second chance at life would not be easy, so she started reading the bible and had a better look at life. She repeats these words daily so that I do not forget them and learn to live by it.
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I’m glad you told me about it most wouldn’t even have bothered and just would have dropped off the face of the earth without any explanation. I’ve had this happen to me many times before and it really hurts that I wasn’t important enough for the truth or to be even good enough to be a girlfriend always the friend never the girlfriend. I’m glad it worked out where we are still friends and still talking with each other that doesn’t happen very often and I’m glad that we are still connecting. I guess I thought I had a chance with you I thought that maybe you felt more than just friendship with me at times. Maybe it was just all in my head maybe I was reading into things too much but the little things you said to me made me think that maybe you wanted to start a relationship with me one day. But I was wrong to think that I’m sorry if I made you feel like you messed me up or hurt me and that you have to be so distant with me. You didn’t do anything wrong to me or hurt me you made me a stronger person and gave me an experience I should be thanking you for that. You shouldn’t have to feel like you have to be distant with me we are friends and friends shouldn’t be like that.
“Do not be afraid”. That is my favorite motto to live by because every day, everyone faces some sort of fear. This short phrase reminds me to stay brave and focus on the good in my life and all around me. In my life, my greatest love is my family and friends. These 2 things keep me happy in life and they are all I need to get through anything in my life and help me follow my motto. These 2 things are also the things I treasure most in my life. In my friends, I value their ability to make me laugh, no matter the circumstances. There is not a day in my life where my friends don’t make me laugh. My greatest extravagance in my life is going on cruises in the cars that my dad brings home from his job. He works at a car lot in MN, and every day
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