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Milkman's Coming Of Age

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maturity is a complex concept, only activated and defined by the experiences that one endures. In other words, as a child, we begin life as naive individuals but as time progresses our lives are influenced by our exposure to significant events, the people that we encounter and the consequences that we learn. Slowly we surpass into higher levels of consciousness that can ultimately represent the stages of maturation. Society attempts to artificially provoke this coming of age using physical time in order to dictate the level of maturity that should be attained by the individual at different stages in their lives. Coming of age is an natural process and will only truly occur when the individual awakens from the unconscious state of candor. The …show more content…

This phrase, although stated in a mocking tone, is of more value than would be recognized with superficial analysis. Pilate is the key to Milkman unlocking his history, thus leading him to self-awareness and his coming of age. Pronounced “pilot”, she represents what her name suggests by being able to fly and aids Milkman’s flight. It is quite ironic that a woman would play such a significant role due to the narrow-minded nature of Milkman. Furthermore, it is quite interesting that another women, Magdalene, his sister, induce the immediate cause of Milkman’s awakening. She provides a rude awakening to Milkman by stating to Milkman “ You are to blame. You are a sad, pitiful, stupid, selfish, hateful man. I hope your little hog’s gut stands you in good stead, and that you take good care of it because you don't have anything else.” (Page 216) In this statement she acknowledges Milkman’s pompous attitude and rejects any notion of his supremacy due to his masculine status. She reprimanded him for all the immature acts he committed in his life and he just remained quiet. This silence, in itself, is the physical manifestation of maturation; by not speaking he was able to reflect in order to conclude that he would accept Magdalene’s advice. At this point, just like the difference between sleep and wake, Part I ends and Part II …show more content…

In Shalimar he encounters a song that, at first glance, seems just a child’s game. Immediately Milkman considers the song a “meaningless rhyme”(page 264), but later he finds out the true significance of the song. In fact, this represents the legacy of Solomon, Milkman's great grandfather. In previous times, Solomon was able to fly and due to this realization Milkman resolves that he can fly too. From this new awareness, he also derives a sense of pride, resulting in his rejection of others’ opinions and societal notions. “Once long ago, he had cared what Pilate and Hagar thought of him… all that was gone.” (Page 293) Milkman was self-fulfilled and that’s all that concerned him. He successfully rejected society dictating that he cannot fly. Finally, when he encountered Guitar, who would surely kill him, Milkman decided to, at last, take life on his own terms. As opposed to being killed, Milkman surrendered to the wind and was able to fly. In both a literal and figurative sense, he soared. No longer was he the naive individual living his life based on others’ terms. Although his name was still Milkman, he had successfully transcended past the child-like mindset that originally ruined him. This is Milkman’s true coming of age and his resultant of

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