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Family Traditions And Thanksgiving

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For this week’s discussion, I decided to continue focusing on family relationships. Thanksgiving is two days away; it will also be my dad’s 50th birthday tomorrow so we are throwing a huge surprise party for him. The holidays are a time we spend with family enjoying each other’s companies. The reason I chose this topic is due to the difference my family compared to my husband’s side of the family. After reading Chapter ten I could learn more about the concepts to have a better understanding of why that is and of the concepts involved.

As the holidays approach, I can’t wait to spend time with my family, but it is difficult to enjoy anything at my husband’s family events. “My family traditions include immediate family getting together, joking and laughing while telling family stories” (McCornack, 2013). Ever since my husband’s mom passed away in 2007 from cancer it has been difficult for his family to get together. They don’t seem to make spending time a big priority, in fact, my sister-in-law lives ten minutes away, she will visit her sister who lives in the same town as us but refuses to come see her brother until he goes to her house. …show more content…

One thing important to remember before we visit with family is our family privacy rules. “The conditions governing what family members can talk about, how they can discuss such topics and who should have access to family privacy rules(McCornack,2013, pg.339). These are important because if my cousin does something on the internet that isn't allowed and it sparks a conversation in my family so my parents can tell us that, that isn't allowed and it isn't okay for us to be doing. That conversation stays a family privacy conversation and only family members know or talk about it. If someone else were to find out it could cause drama that we were talking about a family member and that we used this example as a way to teach our kids what isn't

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