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Cultural Differences In The Ethiopian Orthodox Church

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When asked to describe the world I come from, I am immediately taken back to the amazing amalgam of religions, cultures, interests and unique life experiences that have molded me into the diligent, culturally conscious, and empathic person that I am today. I have to admit that growing up was sometimes mystifying or even confusing, as you will see. I was baptized into the Ethiopian Orthodox Church, per request of my maternal grandmother, but when I attended mass at my father's Roman Catholic Church, I wasn't allowed to receive communion. I stood up to follow my dad down the aisle of the church, just as I followed my mom to receive Qurban (Amharic for "communion" in the Ethiopian Orthodox Church). But, my older brother grabbed my arm and whispered, "We don't do that here." I proceeded to ask him why and he nonchalantly shrugged his shoulders. I taxed my mind searching for a logical reason behind his answer, but I couldn't find one. Although I was puzzled for a moment, I was soon comforted by my favorite deacon's sermon on "Loving Thy Neighbor." It never occurred to me that any two components of who I am could clash. In my home, differences were always celebrated and accommodated, but at church, they seemed …show more content…

My maternal great-grandmother, Turinesh Desta, was born in Tigray, Ethiopia and had never attended school in her life. She was forced into marriage at 13, ran away from her husband with her children at 16, and started her own restaurant at 17. My paternal grandmother, Alefech Dominico Ghermay, was educated, spoke five languages, and married the love of her life, who was a doctor. In my life, I was fortunate enough to live under one roof with these two women. Although they were innately different in almost every aspect imaginable, they shared a common ground in that they both taught me defining lessons about hard work, determination, and loving and respecting others, as well as

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