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Bullying And Bullying

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Understanding the notion of bullying is undermined by an individual’s point of view, life experience, and personality. What some people declare as bullying others shake off as a typical behavior of kids. Whether the bias also has a base in gender or age the issue that needs to be dealt with is the damage done to the victim and the mental health needs of the perpetrator. The question regarding bullying is about norms and responses to violations of the norms. How students and adults interpret the actions, reactions, and feelings are tied to the level of open communications that exist. Adults often believe it when the student says ‘I’m fine’ because they want to believe it. Students are quite skillful about saying what they think adults want to hear. This lack of communication at home and school leaves a student who is being bullied isolated and vulnerable. Social cognition theory speaks to learning through observation. At any age a person can observe a behavior and choose to incorporate it in their lives or reject it. The observation/learning s additionally impacted in relation to it being hot or cold. Cold learning is rational and logical and hot learning keys into the emotions. Looking at the emotions related to human behavior (jealousy, love, anger), these can impact social cognition and turn the behavior into uncontrolled actions that can result in bullying, violence against others, and suicide. This ‘hot’ cognition is especially volatile during the teenage years and plays an important part for both the victim and the perpetrator in a bullying situation. (THE LESSOM). One aspect of social cognition is that learning and the motivation play a role in behaviors and for some learners their behavior may not change no matter what they observed.
The experience of being bullied is unique to each person. In the report Students’ Perspectives on Cyber Bullying, they note different perspectives on bullying based on gender, girls thought it was a problem and boys were less inclined to think it is a problem. The results also reported that the students were aware of strategies to impede the bullying (via social media and texting) and that they did not share information with parents because they did not want to lose

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