E. Cobham Brewer 18101897. Dictionary of Phrase and Fable. 1898.
White Lies.
A conventional lie, such as telling a caller that Mrs. A. or Mrs. B. is not at home, meaning not at home to that particular caller.
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It is said that Dean Swift called on a friend, and was told by Jeames that master is not at home. After a time this very friend called on the dean, and Swift, opening the window, shouted, Not at home. When the friend expostulated, Swift said, I believed your footman when he said his master was not at home; surely you can believe the master himself when he tells you he is not at home.