E. Cobham Brewer 18101897. Dictionary of Phrase and Fable. 1898.
Oar.
To put your oar into my boat. To interfere with my affairs. Paddle your own canoe, and dont put your oar into my boat. Bon homme, garde ta vache. Never scald your lips with another mans porridge (Scotch). Croyez moi chacun son metier, et les vaches sont bien gardées.