| The Columbia World of Quotations. 1996. |
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| NUMBER: | 2817 |
| QUOTATION: | If we focus mostly on how we might have been partly or wholly to blame for what might have been less than a perfect, problem- free childhood, our guilt will overwhelm their pain. It becomes a story about us, not them. . . . When we listen, accept, and acknowledge, we feel regret instead, which is simply guilt without neurosis. |
| ATTRIBUTION: | Jane Adams (20th century), U.S. author and lecturer. I’m Still Your Mother, ch. 2 (1994). |
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| | | The Columbia World of Quotations. Copyright © 1996 Columbia University Press. |
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