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| The more we give to others, the more we are increased. Lao-Tze. | 1 |
| He gives twice who gives quickly. Syrus. | 2 |
| When you give, give with joy and smiling. Joubert. | 3 |
| Riches, understanding, beauty, are fair gifts of God. Luther. | 4 |
| For the will and not the gift makes the giver. Lessing. | 5 |
| We like the gift when we the giver prize. Sheffield. | 6 |
| For to give is the business of the rich. Goethe. | 7 |
| Giving requires good sense. Ovid. | 8 |
| God hands gifts to some, whispers them to others. W. R. Alger. | 9 |
| Who gives a trifle meanly is meaner than the trifle. Lavater. | 10 |
| Of gifts, there seems none more becoming to offer a friend than a beautiful book. Amos Bronson Alcott. | 11 |
| That which is given with pride and ostentation is rather an ambition than a bounty. Seneca. | 12 |
| Rich gifts wax poor when givers prove unkind. Shakespeare. | 13 |
| Gifts are as gold that adorns the temple; grace is like the temple that sanctifies the gold. Burkitt. | 14 |
| There is no grace in a benefit that sticks to the fingers. Seneca. | 15 |
| Gifts come from above in their own peculiar forms. Goethe. | 16 |
| For whatever man has, is in reality only a gift. Wieland. | 17 |
| The gift derives its value from the rank of the giver. Ovid. | 18 |
| Those gifts are ever the most acceptable which the giver makes precious. Ovid. | 19 |
| Give freely to him that deserveth well, and asketh nothing: and that is a way of giving to thyself. Fuller. | 20 |
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| The manner of giving shows the character of the giver more than the gift itself. Lavater. | 21 |
| He who loves with purity considers not the gift of the lover, but the love of the giver. Thomas à Kempis. | 22 |
| While you look at what is given, look also at the giver. Seneca. | 23 |
| | Wear this for me,one out of suits with fortune, |
| That could give more, but that her hand lacks means. |
Shakespeare. | 24 |
| | Saints themselves will sometimes be, |
| Of gifts that cost them nothing, free. |
Butler. | 25 |
| The greatest grace of a gift, perhaps, is that it anticipates and admits of no return. Longfellow. | 26 |
| One must be poor to know the luxury of giving. George Eliot. | 27 |
| The heart of the giver makes the gift dear and precious. Luther. | 28 |
| Take gifts with a sigh; most men give to be paid. Boyle OReilly. | 29 |
| How can that gift leave a trace which has left no void? Mme. Swetchine. | 30 |
| You gave with them words of so sweet breath composed, as made the things more rich. Shakespeare. | 31 |
| That alone belongs to you which you have bestowed. Vemuna. | 32 |
| Whoever makes great presents, expects great presents in return. Martial. | 33 |
| Every gift which is given, even though it be small, is in reality great, if it be given with affection. Pindar. | 34 |
| It is a proof of boorishness to confer a favor with a bad grace; it is the act of giving that is hard and painful. How little does a smile cost? La Bruyère. | 35 |
| Gifts, they weigh like mountains on a sensitive heart. To me they are oftener punishments than pleasures. Mme. Fee. | 36 |
| The making presents to a lady one addresses is like throwing armor into an enemys camp, with a resolution to recover it. Shenstone. | 37 |
| He was one of those men, moreover, who possess almost every gift except the gift of the power to use them. Charles Kingsley. | 38 |
| Posthumous charities are the very essence of selfishness, when bequeathed by those who, when alive, would part with nothing. Colton. | 39 |
| Gifts are like fish-hooks; for who is not aware that the greedy char is deceived by the fly which he swallows? Martial. | 40 |
| It is a cold, lifeless business, when you go to the shops to buy something, which does not represent your life and talent, but a goldsmiths. Emerson. | 41 |
| | Your gift is princely, but it comes too late, |
| And falls like sunbeams on a blasted blossom. |
Suckling. | 42 |
| The gift, to be true, must be the flowing of the giver unto me, correspondent to my flowing unto him. Emerson. | 43 |
| | Win her with gifts, if she respect not words: |
| Dumb jewels often, in their silent kind, |
| More than quick words, do move a womans mind. |
Shakespeare. | 44 |
| | She gave the eyes, she gave me ears; |
| And humble cares, and delicate fears; |
| A heart, the fountain of sweet tears; |
| And love, and thought, and joy. |
Wordsworth. | 45 |
| A giftits kind, its value and appearance; the silence or the pomp that attends it; the style in which it reaches youmay decide the dignity or vulgarity of the giver. Lavater. | 46 |
| Liberty is of more value than any gifts; and to receive gifts is to lose it. Be assured that men most commonly seek to oblige thee only that they may engage thee to serve them. Saadi. | 47 |
| Gifts are the greatest usury, because a two-fold retribution is an urged effect that a noble mind prompts us to; and it is said we pay the most for what is given us. J. Beaumont. | 48 |
| If we will take the good we find, asking no questions, we shall have heaping measures. The great gifts are not got by analysis. Everything good is on the highway. Emerson. | 49 |
| When thou makest presents, let them be of such things as will last long; to the end they may be in some sort immortal, and may frequently refresh the memory of the receiver. Fuller. | 50 |
| Nature makes us buy her presents at the price of so many sufferings that it is doubtful whether she deserves most the name of parent or stepmother. Pliny the Elder. | 51 |
| | She prizes not such trifles as these are: |
| The gifts she looks from me are packd and lockd |
| Up in my heart, which I have given already, |
| But not deliverd. |
Shakespeare. | 52 |
| | He neer considerd it as loath |
| To look a gift-horse in the mouth, |
| And very wisely would lay forth |
| No more upon it than twas worth. |
Butler. | 53 |
| | Policy counselleth a gift, given wisely and in season; |
| And policy afterwards approveth it, for great is the influence of gifts. |
Tupper. | 54 |
| | I never cast a flower away, |
| A gift of one who card for me; |
| A flowera faded flower, |
| But it was done reluctantly. |
L. E. Landon. | 55 |
| Favors, and especially pecuniary ones, are generally fatal to friendship; for our pride will ever prompt us to lower the value of the gift by diminishing that of the donor. Chatfield. | 56 |
| The only gift is a portion of thyself. * * * Therefore the poet brings his poem; the shepherd, his lamb; the farmer, corn; the miner, a gem; the sailor, coral and shells; the painter, his picture; the girl, a handkerchief of her own sewing. Emerson. | 57 |
| People do not care to give alms without some security for their money; and a wooden leg or a withered arm is a sort of draft upon heaven for those who choose to have their money placed to account there. Mackenzie. | 58 |
| In giving, a man receives more than he gives; and the more is in proportion to the worth of the thing given. George MacDonald. | 59 |
| We are as answerable for what we give as for what we receive; nay, the misplacing of a benefit is worse than the not receiving of it; for the one is another persons fault, but the other is mine. Seneca. | 60 |
| No man esteems anything that comes to him by chance; but when it is governed by reason, it brings credit both to the giver and receiver; whereas those favors are in some sort scandalous that make a man ashamed of his patron. Seneca. | 61 |
| Gods love gives in such a way that it flows from a Fathers heart, the well-spring of all good. The heart of the giver makes the gift dear and precious; as among ourselves we say of even a trifling gift, It comes from a hand we love, and look not so much at the gift as at the heart. Luther. | 62 |
| He gives not best that gives most; but he gives most who gives best. If then I cannot give bountifully, yet I will give freely; and what I want in my hand, supply by my heart. He gives well that gives willingly. Arthur Warwick. | 63 |
| Those Spaniards in Mexico who were chased of the Indians tell us what to do with our goods in our extremity. They being to pass over a river in their flight, as many as cast away their gold swam over safe; but some, more covetous, keeping their gold, were either drowned with it, or overtaken and slain by the savages; you have received, now learn to give. Bacon. | 64 |
| It passes in the world for greatness of mind, to be perpetually giving and loading people with bounties; but it is one thing to know how to give and another thing not to know how to keep. Give me a heart that is easy and open, but I will have no holes in it; let it be bountiful with judgment, but I will have nothing run out of it I know not how. Seneca. | 65 |
| The secret of giving affectionately is great and rare; it requires address to do it well; otherwise we lose instead of deriving benefit from it. This man gives lavishly in a way that obliges no one; the manner of giving is worth more than the gift. Another loses intentionally at a game, thus disguising his present; another forgets a jewel, which would have been refused as a gift. A generous booby seems to be giving alms to his mistress when he is making a present. Corneille. | 66 |
| Some men give so that you are angry every time you ask them to contribute. They give so that their gold and silver shoot you like a bullet. Other persons give with such beauty that you remember it as long as you live; and you say, It is a pleasure to go to such men. There are some men that give as springs do; whether you go to them or not, they are always full; and your part is merely to put your dish under the ever-flowing stream. Others give just as a pump does where the well is dry, and the pump leaks. Beecher. | 67 |
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