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| She half consents who silently denies. Ovid. | 1 |
| Deference and intimacy live far apart. Molière. | 2 |
| Ill woo her as the lion woos his brides. John Home. | 3 |
| | And let us mind, faint heart neer wan |
| A lady fair. |
Burns. | 4 |
| A heaven on earth I have won by wooing thee. Shakespeare. | 5 |
| You must not contrast too strongly the hours of courtship with the years of possession. Beaconsfield. | 6 |
| Men are April when they woo, December when they wed. Shakespeare. | 7 |
| Love is a child that talks in broken language, yet then he speaks most plain. Dryden. | 8 |
| The first thing necessary to win the heart of a woman is opportunity. Balzac. | 9 |
| It is against womanhood to be forward in their own wishes. Sir P. Sidney. | 10 |
| With women worth the being won, the softest lover ever best succeeds. Aaron Hill. | 11 |
| I was not born under a rhyming planet, nor I cannot woo in festival terms. Shakespeare. | 12 |
| She is a woman, therefore may be wooed; she is a woman, therefore may be won. Shakespeare. | 13 |
| They dream in courtship, but in wedlock wake. Pope. | 14 |
| Women are not apt to be won by the charms of verse. Bayard Taylor. | 15 |
| If I am not worth the wooing, I surely am not worth the winning. Longfellow. | 16 |
| | Was ever woman in this humour wood? |
| Was ever woman in this humour won? |
Shakespeare. | 17 |
| | And every shepherd tells his tale |
| Under the hawthorne in the dale. |
Milton. | 18 |
| Faint heart hath been a common phrase, faire ladie never wives. J. P. Collier. | 19 |
| The surest way to hit a womans heart is to take aim kneeling. Douglas Jerrold. | 20 |
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| | Her virtue and the conscience of her worth, |
| That would be wood and not unsought be won. |
Milton. | 21 |
| | That man that hath a tongue, I say, is no man, |
| If with his tongue he cannot win a woman. |
Shakespeare. | 22 |
| | We cannot fight for love, as men may do; |
| We should be wood and were not made to woo. |
Shakespeare. | 23 |
| | Be merry, and employ your chiefest thoughts |
| To courtship and such fair ostents of love |
| As shall conveniently become you there. |
Shakespeare. | 24 |
| | Not much he kens, I ween, of womans breast, |
| Who thinks that wanton thing is won by sighs. |
Byron. | 25 |
| | Win her with gifts, if she respects not words; |
| Dumb jewels often in their silent kind |
| More than quick words do move a womans mind. |
Shakespeare. | 26 |
| | Most fair, |
| Will you vouchsafe to teach a soldier terms |
| Such as will enter at a ladys ear |
| And plead his love-suit to her gentle heart? |
Shakespeare. | 27 |
| | Wooing thee, I found thee of more value |
| Than stamps in gold or sums in sealed bags; |
| And tis the very riches of thyself |
| That now I aim at. |
Shakespeare. | 28 |
| O subtle love! a thousand wiles thou hast, by humble suit, by service, or by hire, to win a maidens hold,a thing soon done, for nature framed all women to be won. Tasso. | 29 |
| | His heart kep goin pity-pat, |
| But hern went pity-Zekle. |
Lowell. | 30 |
| | Quiet, Robin, quiet! |
| You lovers are such clumsy summer-flies, |
| Forever buzzing at your ladys face. |
Tennyson. | 31 |
| | Lightly from fair to fair he flew, |
| And loved to plead, lament, and sue, |
| Suit lightly won, and short-lived pain, |
| For monarchs seldom sigh in vain. |
Scott. | 32 |
| | Ah, whither shall a maiden flee, |
| When a bold youth so swift pursues, |
| And siege of tenderest courtesy, |
| With hope perseverent, still renews! |
Coventry Patmore. | 33 |
| | Tis enough |
| Who listens once will listen twice; |
| Her heart be sure is not of ice, |
| And one refusal no rebuff. |
Byron. | 34 |
| | She that with poetry is won, |
| Is but a desk to write upon; |
| And what men say of her they mean |
| No more than on the thing they lean. |
Butler. | 35 |
| | He that will win his dame must do |
| As love does when he draws his bow; |
| With one hand thrust the lady from, |
| And with the other pull her home. |
Butler. | 36 |
| | If I speak to thee in friendships name, |
| Thou thinkst I speak too coldly; |
| If I mention Loves devoted flame, |
| Thou sayst I speak too boldly. |
Moore. | 37 |
| | Say that upon the altar of her beauty |
| You sacrifice your tears, your sighs, your heart: |
| Write till your ink be dry and with your tears |
| Moist it again, and frame some feeling line, |
| That may discover such integrity. |
Shakespeare. | 38 |
| | She wishd she had not heard it, yet she wishd |
| That heaven had made her such a man: She thankd me, |
| And bade me, if I had a friend that lovd her, |
| I should but teach him how to tell my story |
| And that would woo her. |
Shakespeare. | 39 |
| | Women are angels, wooing: |
| Things won are done, joys soul lies in the doing: |
| That she belovd knows nought that knows not this: |
| Men prize the thing ungaind more than it is. |
Shakespeare. | 40 |
| | O gentle Romeo, |
| If thou dost love, pronounce it faithfully, |
| Or if thou thinkst I am too quickly won, |
| Ill frown and be perverse and say thee nay, |
| So thou wilt woo: but else, not for the world. |
Shakespeare. | 41 |
| | Happy Mary Anerly, looking O so fair! |
| Theres a ring upon your hand, and theres myrtle in your hair. |
| Somebody is with you now: Somebody I see, |
| Looks into your trusting face very tenderly. |
Arthur Jas. Munby. | 42 |
| | Tis an old lesson; time approves it true, |
| And those who know it best, deplore it most; |
| When all is won that all desire to woo, |
| The paltry prize, is hardly worth the cost. |
Byron. | 43 |
| | Do proper homage to thine idols eyes; |
| But not too humbly, or she will despise |
| Thee and thy suit, though told in moving tropes: |
| Disguise even tenderness, if thou art wise. |
Byron. | 44 |
| | The nightingales among the sheltering boughs |
| Of populous and many-nested trees |
| Shall teach me how to woo thee, and shall tell me |
| By what resistless charms or incantations |
| They won their mates. |
Longfellow. | 45 |
| | Follow a shadow, it still flies you, |
| Seem to fly it, it will pursue: |
| So court a mistress, she denies you; |
| Let her alone, she will court you. |
| Say are not women truly, then, |
| Styled but the shadows of us men? |
Ben Jonson. | 46 |
| | Bring therefore all the forces that ye may, |
| And lay incessant battery to her heart; |
| Playnts, prayers, vowes, truth, sorrow, and dismay; |
| Those engins can the proudest love convert: |
| And if those fayle, fall down and dy before her; |
| So dying live, and living do adore her. |
Spenser. | 47 |
| | He sat by her side and her soft hand he pressed; |
| He felt, in the pressure returned him thrice blessed, |
| Enraptured gazing |
| On her whom he honored beyond all praising. |
Esaias Tegner. | 48 |
| | Tis sweet to think that whereer we rove |
| We are sure to find something blissful and dear; |
| And that when were far from the lips we love, |
| Weve but to make love to the lips we are near. |
Moore. | 49 |
| | Duncan Gray cam here to woo, |
| Ha, ha, the wooing ot! |
| On blithe Yulenight when we were fou, |
| Ha, ha, the wooing ot! |
| Maggie coost her head fu high, |
| Looked asklent and unco skeigh, |
| Gart poor Duncan stand abeigh: |
| Ha, ha! the wooing ot! |
Burns. | 50 |
| | Alas! to seize the moment |
| When heart inclines to heart, |
| And press a suit with passion, |
| Is not a womans part. |
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| If man come not to gather |
| The roses where they stand, |
| They fade among their foliage, |
| They cannot seek his hand. |
Bryant. | 51 |
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