Facebook in a Crowd by Hal Niedzviecki In the article, titled “Facebook in a Crowd” Hal Niedzviecki discusses his experience with Facebook. Niedzviecki started his account and quickly had about 700 on-line “friends.” In his own words, he was “absurdly proud of how many cyberpals, connections, acquaintances, and even strangers I’d managed to sign up.” (Niedzviecki, 958) But he also had a 2-year-old at home, was a workaholic, and liked being left alone. He had very few real friends. So he decided to have a Facebook party to get to know some of his new friends. Niedzviecki invited all 700 of his “friends” to a local bar for a party. People could respond to one of three options: “Attending,” “Maybe Attending” and “Not Attending.” …show more content…
Facebook is just a tool and having a lot of friends or the ability to start a group doesn't necessarily mean that you will be successful in really connecting people to your company. I have many Facebook friends. Some are past and present students from high school and college, friends from camp, church, and some are coworkers past and present. I have also made many new friends and met in real life for lunch or starbucks several times. For me, Facebook works as an easy way to build new networking friendships and invest in the friendships you already have. Are all of our Facebook friends actually our friends? It’s socially clumsy to think that they are. But that is okay. Networking and online friendships have their own rewards. A few of the friends I have met on Facebook have become very good friends. While I may never meet all of them in person, I am very grateful for them. With the busyness of our lives, Facebook helps me to keep up my friendships. If you're considering Facebook as part of your social media strategy, consider Hal's experience one more time. Perhaps take pause and reach out to your “friends” instead and ask them where they'd like to connect with you. By doing so you might just save yourself that embarrassing situation of your "friends" not showing up to the
In the last ten to fifteen years accompanying the dawn of social media, means of communication among friends and strangers have been easier than ever. Since its creation in 2004, Facebook has grown into the largest social media site on the Internet with 30 million users and counting. The ability to catch up with former high school friends who are now across the country or see how an aunt in Pittsburgh has been doing since the birth of her son are now as simple as the click of a mouse. However, the amount of “friends” acquired on social media may not be an accurate reflection of how many close relationships one truly shares. In an article from Bigthink.com titled “Do You Have Too Many Facebook Friends?”, Steven Mazie gathers research from Pew Research Center about statistics surrounding Facebook
Facebook has become just another way of provoking emotions without talking to someone. When you read the article, you laugh because of the examples she uses. Like when she talks about how one of her friends said she is “In a relationship with Chinese food.” We have all seen that, we might even be those people. So, you feel happy because you can relate to her at that moment. How many of us have seen someone give a “soliloquy” to people that we don’t even know? We can all relate to the feeling of giving a speech over Facebook because we are behind a screen and we do not think that people are reading it. But she also made you feel guilty when she tells you that we have changed the idea of interpersonal relationships. How many of our “Facebook friends” are really our friends?
Facebook’s strengths are part of what makes their personal marketing unique. Facebook has been one of the most successful social media platforms because it allows people to connect from across the world. Thus, because the website has no restriction in terms of size (except for those in China), marketers are able to reach a wide variety of consumers, no matter their location, language, or other barriers. Moreover, Facebook has allowed marketers to not only target a mass, but it has enabled more direct and efficient niche marketing, which is due to consumer profiles. Today, marketers are able to obtain highly personal information, such as an extensive demographic information and interests. As a result of this, companies can create highly personalized ads and connect with their consumers on a deeper more meaningful level. In turn, this improves brand loyalty. Likewise, companies can humanize themselves through Facebook. Often times marketers have a hard time getting through to their consumers because 1) they know they are being targeted and 2) because their organization may to forward/ brash in their messages. Thus, with Facebook marketers can build an actual relationship with their consumers, appeal to their specific interest, and reach out in a more gentler way. Personally, I think this is why so many companies have been so successful with social media; because consumers believe they are interacting with people and not a necessarily a brand. Take Magnolia for example.
He is a father of a 2-year-old, a workaholic and love being left alone. He is also very proud of having around 700 friends on Facebook, since he does not have a social life and next to no friends to hang out with. He recently departed with a friend that he used to spend a lot of time with. So, he gets this ingenious plan of throwing a party for his 700 Facebook “friends”. Out of the 700 people, only 15 people accepted his invitation and only 1 person showed up. The person that showed up was a friend of a friend but she left quickly. From this experience, the author deduced that nobody like to hang out in real life anymore and that the modern world is to blame for this. Since he had 700 friends and he was drinking
I did not use social technology until Facebook came out, and even then, I only allowed family and close friends on to my Facebook page. I am however, an avid video gamer and the more the internet and video games grew the larger my social circles became. In 2005, I played my first MMO (Massively Multiplayer Online) and met a bunch of people from around the world. Most of them I do not keep in contact with anymore but some of them I still talk to almost weekly. I got involved with a group that was in my area that played the same games I did and made even more friends to hang out with. I have work friends, old friends from school, video game friends who I have met outside of the game, and friends
Facebook is a place for fun and entertainment, a place that serves as the word of mouth of people and many leading brands, businesses and organizations, where there is information sharing and traffic content is targeted based on the interests of users; a paradise for SMEs that want to advertise their products and services. You just need to know how you can use this platform to harness the most out of it!
One day I was going through my Facebook profile, and I recognized I was friends with five hundred and eighty people. I was dumbfounded by the great number of individuals I am associated with through my profile. I went through the list to identify several people who I have never met in real life. Most of them were schoolmates, college mates and individuals I had mutual friends with. I was Facebook friends with a majority of them, just because we were part of the same organization. I went to the same school as Ben, but till now I never talked to him, ironically I know what he does with his life through his posts. Social media, to my opinion, gives an illusion that the five hundred and eighty people are actually your friends. In reality they are your “online friends” and your real friends can be categorized into three categories: acquaintance, friend, and best friend.
With regards to this, it is important to remember that Facebook can never replace human contact. Minister Glen Guyton says this in a CBN News interview, "I think it's a good way to connect, pull together and follow up with young people, but it could never replace a face-to-face conversation. You still have to talk to people and develop a relationship with them. Online, you lose something in translation, like touching someone and the laying on of hands [when you pray for them]" (Gosier 3). As humans, we are created by God to be in relationships with each other; He made us to respond to physical contact. If you solely rely on a social networking site to do all of your socializing, then you are going against the way that God has created you. Using Facebook is all about balancing virtual and physical relationships with those around you.
Have you been marketing on Facebook but don’t seem to be getting a lot out of it? Are you measuring your social media activities? As a business, you definitely should be, but many don’t. According to a recent report, only 42% of business surveyed stated that they were able to measure their social activities.
As time passes, the world is becoming better due to the invention of new technologies such as social networking sites and social media (Boyd & Ellison 2007). Boyd and Ellison explained that it is an online website which provides entertainment that allows individuals to communicate with friends or meet new people with similar interests. Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, etc are the examples of social networking sites. The word “friend” has a wide range of definition which can be defined as an individual who you do not have any hatred feelings towards them. According to HelpGuide[HG](n.d.), friend plays an important role in everyday lives. The benefit of having friends around is that they give happiness, encouragement and companies through difficult times which reduces stress and tiredness. Acquaintances, colleagues, parents and strangers can be considered as friends. “Facebook friend” may be found in one of these sections (Quora 2014). Shear social media(2010) explained that a “Facebook friend” can be defined as someone whom you may or may not know in real like who has sent a friend request to your social networking site. They can be our close friends who we have been contacting all the times or long lost friends from college. However, some people are just a “Facebook friend” who have added people just to increase their popularity (Shear social media 2010). According to SingleBlackMale[SBM](2014) as people grow older, then tend to realize that only real friends will stay in
According to “The Facebook Effect” Facebook is the second most visited web site on earth after Google. Most users spend around an hour a day of the website. It has over 400 million active users (at the time the book was written). Even more astonishing the number of people join was about 5 percent a month. “Were the growth rate if both Facebook and the Internet to remain steady, by 2013 every single person online worldwide would be on Facebook”. To me that is an amazing fact and shows not only how popular Facebook is but how it truly changed the way people connected and communicated. According to author David Kirkpatrick Facebook is a “platform for people to get more out of their lives,” and an “entirely new form of communication.”
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Facebook is the lifeline of many people’s social life. Some use it for the purposes of work, some for school and others use it as a way to escape from the real world. Facebook has provided many with a convenient way for keeping in touch with people. It provides several ways to communicate, which forges a stronger bond. It now has games that can be shared between the members; for example, my sister and I can chat while playing a game of Uno together. That bond is made stronger because we are having fun while sharing and catching up with each other. In the time I’ve spent using Facebook, I have learned that one of the commonalities that most users share, is that although their reasons for initially using the site may vary, they all
Social media is anything but social for many who use it for work. Companies and executives top the list of work related networkers. So why would you go to Facebook, which is for lives outside
My Space that came out first making that the new trend by calling it “social media.” Later followed by Facebook–the furthermost popular entity out there giving you the advantage of having the opportunity to become friends with anybody you want to for however long you want to, but is that a “true friendship” or would you just call them an "acquaintance?" An acquaintance is a “circle” of friends or a “community–the feeling without structure” (Deresiewicz 204). Going back to what Deresiewicz mentions social-networking sites are the new century, for that reason, the friendship circles had expanded to engulf the social world, destroying the nature, and individual friendship. As for “getting back in touch with an established friend–when they are people you truly love, it’s a miracle how you can reach out to those you care for” (Deresiewicz 206). Yet, the ones that didn’t matter to you then may now for they are trying to make a generous emotional understanding through social media while living far away, or may not have any meaning for you leaving you are unaware of because you are not staying in contact with everyone that is listed as your “friend” on social